Dathus' Depths

My webcam takes shitty pics, however!

Birthday was last night. Had a great night with my friends doing Pathfinder. Watched the newest episode of Doctor Who. Afterward, I went to go to the bathroom and looked in the mirror and saw…this.

Hey, I found this little gem. This was from FanExpo 2012. 

“Don’t post porn.” Look at all the drafts I’ve got saved up. Come. The. Fuck. At. Me.

iwant-tobelieve:

My eyes are a peculiar colour but I like them.

I love your eyes, kitten.

lii2piing-a22hole:

volpesvolpi:

vickiexz:

penjolina:

piddlebucket:

randomstabbing:

hilariousslut:

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historywhore:

warcrimenancydrew:

do you guys remember that one post about how men feel entitled to take up so much space and women have to deal with a lot less?

This is actually a documented thing. You always see men on the subway or tube or whatever using both armrests while women sit with their arms hunched together into their laps. That’s why I always make a point to take up at least one if not both armrests of the tube so men can be uncomfortable for once.

^ again, for all the people telling me posting this picture is complaining too much.

In my college classes (and high school too) guys were always stretching, sticking fists and elbows in my face, leaning their heads back over my desk, over my work, spreading their legs out, kicking my bag with their dirty shoes. And let’s not pretend they were in other guys’ space as much as they were in women’s.

It’s so true, this happens to me every day on the train. Same with the walking thing, women will weave out of the way whereas men just walk straight and plow down anything in their path. I always end up playing chicken with men on the sidewalk now, because I refuse to move out of their way.

I love playing chicken with dudes who hog the sidewalk. BODY CHECK! Fucking assholes.

“NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THIS!” FUCK OFF.

“AS A MAN, I THINK THAT…” FUCK OFF.

Men always have the same defensive bullshit to spout every time they get called out on their shit. AND IT IS BORING. They remind me of those toys where you pull a string an they have like 5 phrases they can say. Over and over and over.

same here with playing chicken, its hilarious sometimes because they get this flash of realization in their eyes that says ‘holy shit, she’s NOT going to move/??? what do????’ because THEY ARE SO USED TO EVERYONE MOVING FOR THEM

when i was younger my grandpa drew this on a piece of paper,

and he asked me how i, as the red circle, would get around the two people (black circles) if i was walking down the street.

so of course i came back with

moving out of the way for them as i walked.

he asked me if i thought men would do the same and, at the time, i did because i thought it was just common courtesy. but he told me that men would barrel straight through without giving a shit and that i should do the exact same. because i was the one walking and they were the ones in the way. so that’s exactly what i do.

i find this really fascinating because this actually what defines so-called masculine and feminine traits and gestures. the whole limp-wrist thing? that’s someone decreasing the amount of space they take up by not extending their arm fully. same with crossing one’s legs, how it’s considered more masculine to swing your shoulders when you walk creating a wider gait instead of your hips, how someone who holds their elbows tightly into their torso instead of letting them fall more loosely at their sides is considered feminine.

taking up space is not just a frequent habit of males in our culture, its actually how society thinks masculinity is supposed to be expressed.

This is my answer when people say eating disorders are personal problems and have nothing to do with sexism. Women literally socialized to take up as little space as possible all day every day.

Ok I am a guy and I DON’T do this? Not every guy is like this… In fact, I am a lot more polite than most females I know in my area. But I agree quite a few men do this though.

I am actually offended at the ” ‘Not all men..’ FUCK OFF” part. Excuse the FUCK out of you. Just because I’m a man, means I ALWAYS exhibit these signs, and I ALWAYS will do this? Get. Right. Fucked. I do my best to move, duck, weave, and give room for others when I walk; be it on the sidewalk, up/down stairs, or in malls. When sitting on the bus/subway, I go to the farthest side, and offer any room they need if they sit. In fact, I GIVE UP MY SEAT REPEATEDLY to anyone standing with a heavier load/elderly/pregnant/whatever.

So the next time you say “all men take up more space”, maybe you should get out of the sexist mentality and realize not ALL of us are complete assholes. 

hami-is-awesome:

rolling-in-the-doitsu:

trulyhopelessromantic:

dummystark:

trulyhopelessromantic:

jackfrostftw:

voyagesofabookworm:

thenameiskorra:

daughter-of-mischief:

ritsunekohoneybee:

heyjeffydahmer:

Two thumbs up for Tumblr.

I actually care what people on Tumblr have to say

umm ever since the beginning of time

I wouldn’t have wanted to discover tumblr any earlier though ugh just imagine 13 year old me here no thank you nobody would enjoy it

people on Facebook are all like
“omg you don’t know me”
“stop judging these people omg”
“you people need to stop being jerks because i have feelings”
“you know my name, not my story 

…and then there’s Tumblr
“omg feels let us cry together in fandom unity” 
“OMFG I AM SO DONE WITH THIS WEBSITE” …goes back onto dashboard every day for the rest of eternity
“hey an insane photo, let’s point out everything except the obvious reason it was posted”
“you know my story, not my name”

If you cannot reblog this, I’m sorry for you… Perhaps one day

My main reason for liking Tumblr over Facebook?

HEY, LET’S ACTUALLY HELP THESE PEOPLE WE CARE ABOUT!

Or who you ship who with
Because in the end,
We’re all still better than Facebook

Proud to say I’ve never had a Facebook account~

I ship TumblrxFacebook.